{"id":39287,"date":"2026-04-07T03:46:44","date_gmt":"2026-04-07T03:46:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=39287"},"modified":"2026-04-07T03:46:44","modified_gmt":"2026-04-07T03:46:44","slug":"i-was-screaming-in-labor-with-triplets-while-my-husband-slid-his-family-ring-onto-his-mistresss-finger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=39287","title":{"rendered":"I Was Screaming in Labor With Triplets While My Husband Slid His Family Ring Onto His Mistress\u2019s Finger"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex flex-col text-sm pb-25\">\n<section class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full focus:outline-none [--shadow-height:45px] has-data-writing-block:pointer-events-none has-data-writing-block:-mt-(--shadow-height) has-data-writing-block:pt-(--shadow-height) [&amp;:has([data-writing-block])&gt;*]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]\" dir=\"auto\" data-turn-id=\"request-WEB:fdb9fe11-ac19-4ae8-9767-40c404dc29e5-129\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-18\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\" data-turn=\"assistant\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto pb-10 [--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-xs,calc(var(--spacing)*4))] @w-sm\/main:[--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-sm,calc(var(--spacing)*6))] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-lg,calc(var(--spacing)*16))] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col gap-4 grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal outline-none keyboard-focused:focus-ring [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-1\" dir=\"auto\" tabindex=\"0\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"e39bb57e-3fc9-488f-bc8b-d01887869e81\" data-turn-start-message=\"true\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-4-thinking\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full wrap-break-word dark markdown-new-styling\">\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"10\"><strong data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"10\">Part 1<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12\" data-end=\"226\">My name is <strong data-start=\"23\" data-end=\"50\">Harper Sullivan Merritt<\/strong>, and the worst pain of my life did not begin with labor. It began when I heard another woman laughing while I was trying to push three of my husband\u2019s children into the world.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"228\" data-end=\"901\">I was thirty-two, from Nashville, a former ICU nurse who should have known better than to mistake polished manners for character. My husband, <strong data-start=\"370\" data-end=\"386\">Cole Merritt<\/strong>, was forty, the public face of Merritt Venture Group, a billion-dollar tech and private equity machine built on luxury hotels, data centers, and a family reputation for winning quietly. We had been married four years. It took two miscarriages, one round of IVF, and more tears than I will ever admit in public to get pregnant with triplets. By thirty-one weeks, my body was swollen, my blood pressure was unstable, and my obstetrician had already warned me that if labor came early, everything could go wrong fast.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"903\" data-end=\"971\">It came on a Thursday night in a private maternity suite in Atlanta.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"973\" data-end=\"1324\">Cole was not there when my contractions started. Neither was he there when the nurse doubled my monitors, called maternal-fetal medicine, or told me Baby B was turning into a bad position. He texted once: <em data-start=\"1178\" data-end=\"1242\">In a meeting downstairs. Handle the epidural. I\u2019ll be up soon.<\/em> A meeting. While I was vomiting between contractions and trying not to black out.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1326\" data-end=\"1548\">Then my best friend <strong data-start=\"1346\" data-end=\"1360\">Maya Kline<\/strong>, who also happened to be my attorney, walked into my room looking like she had swallowed a blade. She bent close to my bed and said, \u201cDo not sign anything. Do you understand me? Nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1550\" data-end=\"1622\">I barely had time to ask why before another contraction tore through me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1624\" data-end=\"1659\">That was when I heard the applause.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1661\" data-end=\"1952\">It came from the small hospital chapel down the corridor, followed by the unmistakable clink of champagne glasses. At first I thought I was hallucinating from pain, but then one of the younger nurses froze near my door, looked back at me with pity, and made the mistake of telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1954\" data-end=\"2056\">\u201cYour husband is downstairs with <strong data-start=\"1987\" data-end=\"2003\">Vanessa Hale<\/strong>,\u201d she whispered. \u201cThere\u2019s a notary. And a ring box.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2058\" data-end=\"2140\">Vanessa Hale was Cole\u2019s public relations director. Also, apparently, his mistress.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2142\" data-end=\"2413\">While I was screaming in labor with triplets, my husband was in the hospital chapel placing the Merritt family emerald ring on another woman\u2019s hand\u2014and according to Maya, he was signing an emergency trust amendment that could lock my babies out if I died before delivery.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2415\" data-end=\"2441\">Then the elevators opened.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2443\" data-end=\"2635\">And <strong data-start=\"2447\" data-end=\"2467\">Judge Elena Ward<\/strong> stepped onto the maternity floor with two deputies, a sealed court order in her hand, and the kind of expression that made grown men start lying before she even spoke.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2637\" data-end=\"2732\">How did a family court judge know what Cole Merritt was doing before my own children were born?<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"2734\" data-end=\"2737\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"2739\" data-end=\"2749\"><strong data-start=\"2739\" data-end=\"2749\">Part 2<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2751\" data-end=\"2875\">The next ten minutes unfolded in pieces because that is how the body protects itself when pain and betrayal arrive together.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2877\" data-end=\"3286\">One contraction would hit, and all I could think about was breathing. Then it would ease, and I would remember that my husband was somewhere down the hall trying to replace me before my triplets had even taken their first breath. My nurse, <strong data-start=\"3117\" data-end=\"3126\">Tessa<\/strong>, kept telling me to focus on the babies, but there are only so many times a woman can be told to stay calm while her life is being rearranged in the next room.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3288\" data-end=\"3472\">Maya moved fast. She shut my suite door, silenced the television, and pulled a stack of printed documents from her leather bag. I recognized my name on the top page even through tears.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3474\" data-end=\"3761\">\u201cCole filed these electronically forty minutes ago,\u201d she said. \u201cPetition for emergency recognition of marital separation. Temporary authority over infant medical decisions if you\u2019re incapacitated. Restriction of outside family access. He attached what looks like your digital signature.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3763\" data-end=\"3796\">\u201cI didn\u2019t sign anything,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3798\" data-end=\"3807\">\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3809\" data-end=\"4401\">That part was easy. Harder was understanding why he would do it now, while I was in labor. Maya explained in clipped, angry sentences. The Merritt family trust had an old provision that released voting control and certain share distributions when a direct heir had \u201cliving legitimate issue acknowledged by the father and protected by the current marriage.\u201d If I died before birth, or if the marriage could be framed as already broken, Cole could argue for temporary sole control over everything tied to the babies until a later court fight. Temporary, in rich-people language, can mean years.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4403\" data-end=\"4607\">Another contraction slammed into me, and I grabbed the bedrail so hard my knuckles popped. Through the haze, I heard footsteps in the hall, faster now. Voices. A deputy saying, \u201cNobody leaves the chapel.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4609\" data-end=\"4668\">Maya glanced toward the door and said, \u201cGood. She made it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4670\" data-end=\"5323\">Judge Elena Ward was a senior family court judge in Fulton County, known for two things: hating media theatrics and having no patience for men who treated childbirth like a side issue in their financial planning. Maya had managed to reach an on-call clerk after the hospital chaplain called security over a private \u201cceremony\u201d involving disputed marital property and notarized trust papers on the maternity floor. The chaplain, thank God, had refused to participate. When Maya added the forged signature pages and my medical status, the judge authorized an emergency intervention and came herself because the filings were already being used in real time.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5325\" data-end=\"5519\">That still sounds unbelievable when I say it out loud. A judge in a hospital at midnight. But billionaires do not move like normal people, and sometimes the law has to catch them where they are.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5521\" data-end=\"5617\">Tessa checked my monitor again and swore under her breath. \u201cBaby B\u2019s tracing is getting uglier.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5619\" data-end=\"5669\">\u201cJust tell me what\u2019s happening out there,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5671\" data-end=\"5698\">She hesitated. Maya didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5700\" data-end=\"5717\">\u201cShe caught him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5719\" data-end=\"5725\">\u201cHow?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5727\" data-end=\"6099\">\u201cIn the chapel,\u201d Maya said. \u201cCole had Vanessa standing in front of the altar rail with the Merritt emerald ring on her finger. There was a notary, one of your father-in-law\u2019s estate attorneys, and a jewelry insurance rider transferring custody of the ring. More important, there was a trust amendment and a medical directive packet using your forged electronic signature.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6101\" data-end=\"6264\">I turned my head and stared at the ceiling because if I looked at another human face, I was going to start screaming for reasons that had nothing to do with labor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6266\" data-end=\"6655\">The emerald ring mattered more than it should have. Cole\u2019s grandmother had left it with instructions that it was to stay with the legal wife of the current Merritt heir or pass into trust for direct children. Vanessa wearing it while I labored was not just cruelty. It was branding. It was Cole telling the room who he expected to survive the night in social terms, even if not legal ones.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6657\" data-end=\"6717\">Then Maya added the detail that made the whole thing colder.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6719\" data-end=\"6898\">\u201cJudge Ward says Cole also filed an affidavit claiming you were under emotional distress and had asked him privately to \u2018prepare for continuity in the event of maternal decline.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6900\" data-end=\"6951\">That was not just betrayal. That was premeditation.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6953\" data-end=\"7237\">The door opened hard enough to hit the stopper. Judge Ward stepped inside in a navy suit, rain still on her shoulders, one deputy behind her. She was in her late fifties, silver at the temples, sharp-eyed, and so controlled that everyone else in the room immediately looked less real.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7239\" data-end=\"7484\">\u201cMrs. Merritt,\u201d she said, coming straight to my bedside. \u201cI need you to answer two questions clearly if you can. Did you authorize any separation filing tonight? Did you authorize any change to infant medical decision-making or trust documents?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7486\" data-end=\"7505\">\u201cNo,\u201d I said. \u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7507\" data-end=\"7554\">She nodded once. \u201cThat\u2019s all I need right now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7556\" data-end=\"7790\">Then she turned to Maya. \u201cWe\u2019re freezing every filing attached to that packet pending forensic review. The ring transfer is void for now. The notary is being detained as a witness. Mr. Merritt is attempting to claim misunderstanding.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7792\" data-end=\"7821\">\u201cOf course he is,\u201d Maya said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7823\" data-end=\"8058\">Judge Ward\u2019s expression didn\u2019t change, but her voice did. \u201cThere\u2019s more. He also denied paternity in a sealed addendum, then attached a separate acknowledgment signed three months ago stating these are his children. He submitted both.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8060\" data-end=\"8112\">Even through labor, my brain caught on that. \u201cBoth?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8114\" data-end=\"8261\">\u201cYes,\u201d she said. \u201cWhich means either he is panicking, or someone built him two strategies and told him to use whichever one kept the most control.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8263\" data-end=\"8540\">A fresh contraction cut through me so violently I cried out into the pillow. Tessa pressed the call button and the room filled at once\u2014resident, attending, anesthesia, NICU team. Baby B\u2019s heart rate had dropped again. My blood pressure was climbing. The calm ended right there.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8542\" data-end=\"8811\">As they unlocked the bed and started moving me toward the OR, I saw Cole at the far end of the hall, one deputy beside him, Vanessa behind him with the emerald ring gone from her hand. He looked furious, not ashamed. That told me everything about the man I had married.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8813\" data-end=\"8995\">But as they pushed me past the chapel, I noticed something on the floor near the altar: a torn envelope with the Merritt legal crest and one handwritten line visible through the rip.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8997\" data-end=\"9041\"><strong data-start=\"8997\" data-end=\"9041\">Use the July agreement, not the old one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9043\" data-end=\"9109\">I barely had time to see it before the doors swung shut behind me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9111\" data-end=\"9203\">Who wrote that note\u2014and what exactly had Cole planned for me long before labor ever started?<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"9205\" data-end=\"9208\" \/>\n<p data-start=\"9210\" data-end=\"9220\"><strong data-start=\"9210\" data-end=\"9220\">Part 3<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9222\" data-end=\"9292\">I woke up to the sound of three different cries and one machine alarm.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9294\" data-end=\"9658\">That is still the cleanest way I can explain the first seconds after surgery. I remember cold air, a throat that felt scraped raw, and Maya leaning over me with mascara smeared under one eye like a woman who had been fighting on my behalf in every room at once. Then I heard it again: one sharp cry, one angry cry, one thin cry that sounded almost like a question.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9660\" data-end=\"9669\">Triplets.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9671\" data-end=\"9691\">Two girls and a boy.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9693\" data-end=\"9709\">They were alive.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9711\" data-end=\"10100\">I started crying before anyone finished telling me their weights. <strong data-start=\"9777\" data-end=\"9787\">Sophie<\/strong>, <strong data-start=\"9789\" data-end=\"9797\">June<\/strong>, and <strong data-start=\"9803\" data-end=\"9812\">Miles<\/strong> arrived by emergency C-section just after 1:40 a.m., all under four pounds, all rushed to the NICU, all stable enough to make noise. I had lost more blood than expected and would need monitoring, but I was alive too. That fact seemed to irritate at least two people in the Merritt orbit.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10102\" data-end=\"10567\">Cole did not see me until late the next afternoon, and only because Judge Ward\u2019s emergency order limited what he could do, not what he wanted. By then Maya had already secured a temporary injunction freezing the trust amendment, the forged medical packet, and any transfer of marital property, including the emerald ring. The court also barred the release of any statement regarding my capacity, the children\u2019s status, or our marriage until a hearing could be held.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10569\" data-end=\"10852\">Cole entered my room looking exhausted in the way rich men do when they\u2019ve been inconvenienced by consequences. His tie was gone. His cuff was stained with what looked like chapel candle wax. For a second I had the absurd thought that maybe he would finally break and tell the truth.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10854\" data-end=\"10916\">Instead he said, \u201cYou\u2019ve let Maya turn this into a spectacle.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10918\" data-end=\"10956\">I laughed so hard it hurt my stitches.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10958\" data-end=\"11046\">\u201cYou proposed to your mistress in a hospital chapel while I was in labor with triplets.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11048\" data-end=\"11071\">\u201cIt wasn\u2019t a proposal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11073\" data-end=\"11136\">That was his first instinct. Not remorse. Technical correction.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11138\" data-end=\"11566\">He claimed Vanessa had been \u201cholding the ring for safekeeping\u201d because the family office was worried about media fallout if things went badly in surgery. He claimed the forged signature packet came from an overzealous attorney working from outdated templates. He claimed the paternity conflict happened because his father\u2019s office used an old draft by mistake. Mistake, mistake, mistake. Wealth turns wrongdoing into vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11568\" data-end=\"11631\">Then I asked about the handwritten note from the torn envelope.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11633\" data-end=\"11674\">That was the first time his face changed.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11676\" data-end=\"11759\">He recovered quickly, but not quickly enough. \u201cYou were under medication,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11761\" data-end=\"11793\">\u201cSo there was a July agreement.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11795\" data-end=\"11813\">He did not answer.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11815\" data-end=\"12542\">After he left, Maya filled in what he wouldn\u2019t. The \u201cJuly agreement\u201d appeared to be a private family office memo drafted after my twenty-week anatomy scan, when the triplets were confirmed viable and the trust exposure became real. It outlined two possible tracks if \u201cmaternal instability, marital fracture, or public scandal\u201d threatened succession optics. One track assumed I would stay married and the babies would be publicly embraced. The other assumed Cole would pivot, frame the marriage as effectively broken, and hold all control until the children\u2019s claims could be \u201cverified, managed, and integrated.\u201d Managed. That word told me they were planning around my babies like they were future legal leaks, not human beings.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12544\" data-end=\"12812\">The note itself became a problem for them because hospital security recovered the rest of the envelope from a trash can near the chapel. It had been delivered from <strong data-start=\"12708\" data-end=\"12733\">Merritt Family Office<\/strong> that evening. No signature, but enough metadata and timing to turn Maya feral.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12814\" data-end=\"12859\">Vanessa, meanwhile, had celebrated too early.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12861\" data-end=\"13305\">She gave a statement to a gossip site before sunrise calling herself \u201cthe woman standing beside Cole through the truth.\u201d That might have worked if Judge Ward hadn\u2019t already frozen the ring transfer and if one of the chapel staff hadn\u2019t told investigators that Vanessa asked whether the \u201cwife papers\u201d had been signed before she stepped in front of the altar. When women like Vanessa think they\u2019ve won, they forget that employees hear everything.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13307\" data-end=\"13672\">Three days later, the first hearing was held in a secure conference room inside the hospital because I still could not be transported easily. Judge Ward presided with one deputy at the door, Maya at my side, Cole and two attorneys across from us, and Vanessa nowhere in sight. I held a printed photo of the babies because I wanted something in that room to be real.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13674\" data-end=\"13705\">The forensic review was brutal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13707\" data-end=\"14261\">My supposed electronic authorization for the separation filing originated from an IP address inside the Merritt family office, not my phone or any hospital device. The medical directive packet contained a copied signature layer lifted from an IVF billing acknowledgment I had signed months earlier. The conflicting paternity addenda had different formatting histories; one had been created weeks earlier, one only hours before labor. Someone had built options. Cole may not have typed them himself, but he had walked into the chapel prepared to use them.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"14263\" data-end=\"14343\">Then Judge Ward dropped the detail that broke what little remained of his story.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"14345\" data-end=\"14722\">At fourteen weeks, Cole had signed a notarized estate acknowledgment specifically identifying \u201cthe currently expected triplets carried by Harper Sullivan Merritt\u201d as his children for trust continuity purposes. That document had been held by an independent estate custodian, not the family office. He could not claim confusion. He had already recognized them when it served him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"14724\" data-end=\"14773\">Cole looked at his father for exactly one second.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"14775\" data-end=\"14798\">That was enough for me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"14800\" data-end=\"15206\">Because <strong data-start=\"14808\" data-end=\"14828\">Theodore Merritt<\/strong>, my father-in-law, had not been in the chapel when the judge arrived. He had not called me, visited the NICU, or even pretended concern. He had vanished into the family office the minute the law entered the building. And suddenly I understood the shape of the betrayal: Cole was weak, but Theodore was strategic. My husband may have carried the ring. He did not invent the map.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"15208\" data-end=\"15624\">The judge awarded me temporary sole medical authority over the babies, froze succession actions, and referred the forged filings for criminal review. Vanessa disappeared from social media that same afternoon. The emerald ring went into sealed evidence. Cole was ordered to have supervised visitation once the NICU approved it. Watching him hear that was the first time I saw humiliation land on him harder than fear.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"15626\" data-end=\"15658\">But the story did not end there.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"15660\" data-end=\"15935\">A week later, after I was finally wheeled into the NICU to place my hand over all three isolettes at once, a nurse handed me an envelope that had been left with no return address. Inside was a single photocopied page from the July memo and a sticky note in block handwriting.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"15937\" data-end=\"16060\"><strong data-start=\"15937\" data-end=\"16060\">He wasn\u2019t trying to replace you. He was trying to erase the order of inheritance. Ask who benefits if Miles dies first.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"16062\" data-end=\"16099\">Miles. My only son. My smallest baby.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"16101\" data-end=\"16479\">Maya told me not to panic, that anonymous notes are often designed to fracture already-broken minds. Maybe she was right. But the note knew details that had not been public, and it changed the questions I was asking. This was never only about infidelity. Vanessa might have been the face of the insult, the ring, the spectacle. But money that old rarely moves for romance alone.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"16481\" data-end=\"16734\">So yes, I survived the labor. My triplets survived the night. A judge walked into a billionaire family\u2019s hospital theater and blew up their script before they could finish writing me out of it. But someone, somewhere, still knew more than they had said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"16736\" data-end=\"16871\">And if they were worried enough to warn me about inheritance order after the babies were born, what had they expected to happen before?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"16873\" data-end=\"16998\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><strong data-start=\"16873\" data-end=\"16998\" data-is-last-node=\"\">Would you trust the warning, or assume it\u2019s another trap? Tell me below\u2014because I still don\u2019t know which answer is safer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"z-0 flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"mt-3 w-full empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"text-center\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"pointer-events-none h-px w-px absolute bottom-0\" aria-hidden=\"true\" data-edge=\"true\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Part 1 My name is Harper Sullivan Merritt, and the worst pain of my life did not begin with labor. It began when I heard another woman laughing while I was trying to push three of my husband\u2019s children into the world. 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