{"id":53764,"date":"2026-04-30T18:05:40","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T18:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=53764"},"modified":"2026-04-30T18:05:40","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T18:05:40","slug":"i-begged-a-cozy-bakery-for-anything-they-were-going-to-throw-away-because-my-seven-year-old-daughter-was-shaking-from-hunger-but-the-manager-said-policy-came-first-until-one-ordinary-lookin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=53764","title":{"rendered":"I Begged a Cozy Bakery for Anything They Were Going to Throw Away Because My Seven-Year-Old Daughter Was Shaking From Hunger \u2014 But the Manager Said Policy Came First, Until One Ordinary-Looking Customer Removed His Cap, Stepped Between Us and the Counter, and Turned One Humiliating Moment Into the Kind of Truth That Changed Everyone in the Room"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 data-section-id=\"78e1di\" data-start=\"2507\" data-end=\"2527\">Part 1<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2529\" data-end=\"2568\">The worst part was not asking for food.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2570\" data-end=\"2637\">The worst part was watching my daughter pretend she was not hungry.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2639\" data-end=\"2918\">Flora stood beside me in Willow &amp; Rye Bakery, hands folded over her stomach, staring at a strawberry cream cake behind the glass like it was something from a dream. Her lips were pale. Her little pink backpack hung off one shoulder, empty except for a library book and a sweater.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2920\" data-end=\"3170\">My name is Marissa Lane. I\u2019m a single mother from Pasadena, California, and that day I had already tried two churches, one food pantry, and a shelter with a line wrapped around the block. By the time I pushed open the bakery door, I had no plan left.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3172\" data-end=\"3183\">Only Flora.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3185\" data-end=\"3213\">I stepped up to the counter.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3215\" data-end=\"3290\">The cashier, Emily, smiled automatically. \u201cWhat can I get started for you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3292\" data-end=\"3332\">I opened my mouth, but nothing came out.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3334\" data-end=\"3397\">Flora tugged my shirt. \u201cIt\u2019s okay, Mommy. I\u2019m not that hungry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3399\" data-end=\"3424\">That lie gave me courage.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3426\" data-end=\"3598\">\u201cDo you have anything you\u2019re going to throw away?\u201d I asked. \u201cBread ends, broken cookies, anything. I can come back and clean tables. I just need something for my daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3600\" data-end=\"3646\">Emily\u2019s smile disappeared. Not cruelly. Sadly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3648\" data-end=\"3675\">\u201cI can ask,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3677\" data-end=\"3732\">A manager came around the pastry case before she moved.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3734\" data-end=\"3763\">His name tag said <strong data-start=\"3752\" data-end=\"3762\">Dalton<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3765\" data-end=\"3821\">\u201cWe don\u2019t give out food during business hours,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3823\" data-end=\"3873\">\u201cI understand,\u201d I said quickly. \u201cBut she\u2019s seven.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3875\" data-end=\"3905\">\u201cDonations are after closing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3907\" data-end=\"3922\">\u201cWhen is that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3924\" data-end=\"3930\">\u201cSix.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3932\" data-end=\"3950\">It was barely one.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3952\" data-end=\"3990\">Flora\u2019s fingers tightened around mine.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3992\" data-end=\"4076\">Dalton lowered his voice. \u201cYou can\u2019t come in here and make customers uncomfortable.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4078\" data-end=\"4182\">A woman near the window looked away. A man in a dark cap at the corner table stopped lifting his coffee.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4184\" data-end=\"4204\">I felt my face burn.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4206\" data-end=\"4231\">\u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d I whispered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4233\" data-end=\"4281\">I turned to leave before Flora could see me cry.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4283\" data-end=\"4344\">Then her stomach growled so loudly that even Dalton heard it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4346\" data-end=\"4359\">Silence fell.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4361\" data-end=\"4419\">From the corner, the man in the cap pushed back his chair.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4421\" data-end=\"4443\">\u201cNo,\u201d he said quietly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4445\" data-end=\"4480\">Dalton looked annoyed. \u201cExcuse me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4482\" data-end=\"4543\">The stranger walked toward us, calm but impossible to ignore.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4545\" data-end=\"4601\">\u201cShe doesn\u2019t need to leave,\u201d he said. \u201cShe needs lunch.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 data-section-id=\"cxcntk\" data-start=\"4603\" data-end=\"4632\"><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"4634\" data-end=\"4830\">I had no idea who the quiet man in the corner was. All I knew was that my daughter was shaking, the manager wanted us gone, and one stranger refused to look away.<\/p>\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto [--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-xs,calc(var(--spacing)*4))] @w-sm\/main:[--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-sm,calc(var(--spacing)*6))] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-margin:var(--thread-content-margin-lg,calc(var(--spacing)*16))] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col gap-4 grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal outline-none keyboard-focused:focus-ring [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-1\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"7dc39358-6f5c-4082-9fbb-f4d88c620293\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-5-thinking\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full wrap-break-word dark markdown-new-styling\">\n<h2 data-section-id=\"19ma9og\" data-start=\"4837\" data-end=\"4846\">Part 2<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4848\" data-end=\"4906\">Dalton\u2019s jaw tightened like the stranger had insulted him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4908\" data-end=\"4987\">\u201cSir,\u201d he said, forcing a customer-service smile, \u201cthis is a private business.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4989\" data-end=\"5031\">The man in the black cap nodded. \u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5033\" data-end=\"5049\">\u201cWe have rules.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5051\" data-end=\"5066\">\u201cI heard them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5068\" data-end=\"5090\">\u201cThen you understand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5092\" data-end=\"5157\">\u201cNo,\u201d the stranger said. \u201cI understand hunger. That\u2019s different.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5159\" data-end=\"5351\">The bakery went so quiet I could hear the espresso machine clicking behind the counter. Flora pressed herself against my leg, unsure whether this man was helping us or making everything worse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5353\" data-end=\"5415\">He turned to Emily. \u201cCan you please pack the strawberry cake?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5417\" data-end=\"5440\">Emily looked at Dalton.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5442\" data-end=\"5462\">Dalton did not move.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5464\" data-end=\"5588\">The stranger added, \u201cAnd two bowls of soup. Turkey sandwiches. Apples, oranges, milk if you have it. Put it all on my card.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5590\" data-end=\"5629\">\u201cThat\u2019s not necessary,\u201d I said quickly.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5631\" data-end=\"5776\">He looked at me then, really looked at me, not like I was a problem or a lesson or a sad story, but like I was a person standing in front of him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5778\" data-end=\"5834\">\u201cSometimes people shouldn\u2019t have to ask twice,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5836\" data-end=\"5901\">I had been holding myself together all day. That almost ended me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5903\" data-end=\"6088\">Emily moved first. Her hands shook as she pulled a pink bakery box from beneath the counter. Dalton leaned close to her and whispered, \u201cYou ring this wrong, it comes out of your check.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6090\" data-end=\"6113\">The stranger heard him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6115\" data-end=\"6196\">\u201cSo ring it right,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd add whatever fee makes your manager feel safe.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6198\" data-end=\"6265\">A nervous laugh moved through the room, but Dalton\u2019s face darkened.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6267\" data-end=\"6293\">\u201cDo I know you?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6295\" data-end=\"6336\">The man hesitated, then took off his cap.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6338\" data-end=\"6354\">Somebody gasped.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6356\" data-end=\"6423\">I did not understand at first. Then Emily dropped the pastry tongs.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6425\" data-end=\"6475\">\u201cOh my God,\u201d she whispered. \u201cYou\u2019re Keanu Reeves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6477\" data-end=\"6514\">The name hit the room like lightning.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6516\" data-end=\"6644\">Phones came up. A teenager near the window whispered, \u201cNo way.\u201d A woman with a stroller started crying before she even knew why.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6646\" data-end=\"6780\">But Keanu did not pose. He did not smile for the cameras. He just looked uncomfortable with the attention and kept his focus on Flora.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6782\" data-end=\"6822\">\u201cWhat\u2019s your name?\u201d he asked her gently.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6824\" data-end=\"6847\">\u201cFlora,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6849\" data-end=\"6875\">\u201cThat\u2019s a beautiful name.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6877\" data-end=\"6926\">\u201cIt means flower,\u201d she said, a little braver now.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6928\" data-end=\"6977\">\u201cIt does,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd flowers need lunch too.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6979\" data-end=\"7034\">Emily laughed through tears and packed the food faster.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7036\" data-end=\"7196\">Then she slipped something into the bag when Dalton wasn\u2019t looking. I noticed because mothers notice everything. A folded receipt. Maybe a coupon. Maybe a note.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7198\" data-end=\"7217\">Dalton noticed too.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7219\" data-end=\"7247\">\u201cWhat was that?\u201d he snapped.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7249\" data-end=\"7261\">Emily froze.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7263\" data-end=\"7329\">Keanu\u2019s eyes shifted to the bag, then back to Dalton. \u201cA mistake?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7331\" data-end=\"7353\">Dalton grabbed for it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7355\" data-end=\"7370\">I stepped back.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7372\" data-end=\"7388\">Flora whimpered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7390\" data-end=\"7496\">The entire bakery changed in an instant. Kindness had opened the door, but fear was still standing inside.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7498\" data-end=\"7529\">\u201cGive me the bag,\u201d Dalton said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7531\" data-end=\"7568\">Emily\u2019s voice shook. \u201cIt\u2019s paid for.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7570\" data-end=\"7593\">\u201cI said give it to me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7595\" data-end=\"7720\">Keanu moved one step between Dalton and my daughter. Not aggressively. Not dramatically. Just enough that Dalton had to stop.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7722\" data-end=\"7776\">\u201cWhy are you so afraid of a bag of food?\u201d Keanu asked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7778\" data-end=\"7800\">Dalton\u2019s face flushed.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7802\" data-end=\"7898\">Behind the counter, Emily looked like she might be sick. Her eyes darted toward the back office.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7900\" data-end=\"7931\">That was when the twist hit me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7933\" data-end=\"7970\">This was not just about store policy.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7972\" data-end=\"8006\">Something else was happening here.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8008\" data-end=\"8090\">A delivery worker near the door spoke up. \u201cMan, they throw out trays every night.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8092\" data-end=\"8134\">Dalton whipped around. \u201cStay out of this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8136\" data-end=\"8223\">The delivery worker raised his hands. \u201cI pick up from here. I\u2019ve seen it. Whole boxes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8225\" data-end=\"8326\">An older customer stood next. \u201cMy church asked for leftovers last month. You said there weren\u2019t any.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8328\" data-end=\"8349\">Emily\u2019s lip trembled.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8351\" data-end=\"8389\">Dalton pointed at her. \u201cNot one word.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8391\" data-end=\"8440\">Keanu\u2019s voice stayed soft. \u201cEmily, are you okay?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8442\" data-end=\"8487\">She looked at him, then at me, then at Flora.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8489\" data-end=\"8562\">Finally, she reached beneath the counter and pulled out a small notebook.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8564\" data-end=\"8578\">Dalton lunged.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8580\" data-end=\"8671\">Keanu caught the edge of the counter, blocking him just long enough for Emily to step back.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8673\" data-end=\"8905\">\u201cIt\u2019s a list,\u201d she said, tears running down her face. \u201cFamilies. Seniors. Kids who come in hungry. We were told never to help them until after closing, but there\u2019s almost never anything left by then because Dalton makes us dump it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8907\" data-end=\"8937\">Dalton shouted, \u201cShe\u2019s lying!\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8939\" data-end=\"8981\">Emily shook her head. \u201cNo. I have photos.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"8983\" data-end=\"9002\">My knees went weak.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9004\" data-end=\"9065\">All this time, I had thought we arrived five hours too early.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9067\" data-end=\"9087\">The truth was worse.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9089\" data-end=\"9176\">We had arrived in a place where food was being protected from hungry people on purpose.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9178\" data-end=\"9284\">Then Flora tugged my sleeve and whispered, \u201cMommy, why would someone throw away food when people need it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9286\" data-end=\"9302\">Nobody answered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9304\" data-end=\"9320\">Not even Dalton.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"9322\" data-end=\"9325\" \/>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"19ma9oh\" data-start=\"9327\" data-end=\"9336\">Part 3<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"9338\" data-end=\"9410\">The question hung in the bakery like a bell that would not stop ringing.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9412\" data-end=\"9466\">Why would someone throw away food when people need it?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9468\" data-end=\"9709\">Dalton opened his mouth, but no clean answer existed. Not with Emily holding the notebook. Not with customers recording. Not with Keanu Reeves standing quietly between my daughter and a man who suddenly looked much smaller than his name tag.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9711\" data-end=\"9782\">\u201cIt\u2019s liability,\u201d Dalton snapped at last. \u201cIt\u2019s policy. It\u2019s business.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9784\" data-end=\"9887\">Keanu looked at the shelves full of bread, muffins, rolls, and cakes. \u201cBusiness can still have a soul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9889\" data-end=\"9928\">The owner arrived twenty minutes later.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"9930\" data-end=\"10115\">Her name was Janet Willow, and she came in breathless, hair pinned badly, coat half-buttoned, like someone had called her during a family emergency. Maybe that was what this had become.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10117\" data-end=\"10249\">Dalton rushed toward her. \u201cJanet, this got out of hand. A woman came in begging, Emily violated policy, and now people are filming\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10251\" data-end=\"10273\">Janet raised one hand.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10275\" data-end=\"10286\">He stopped.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10288\" data-end=\"10319\">She looked at Emily. \u201cShow me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10321\" data-end=\"10366\">Emily handed over the notebook and her phone.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10368\" data-end=\"10615\">The bakery stayed silent while Janet scrolled through photo after photo. Clear trash bags full of bread. Boxes of pastries dumped behind the building. Notes from employees begging to donate food earlier. Messages from Dalton threatening write-ups.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10617\" data-end=\"10669\">Janet\u2019s face changed slowly from confusion to shame.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10671\" data-end=\"10711\">\u201cI never told him to do this,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10713\" data-end=\"10758\">Dalton scoffed. \u201cYou said protect the brand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10760\" data-end=\"10798\">\u201cI meant don\u2019t sell stale croissants.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10800\" data-end=\"10819\">\u201cYou said no risk.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10821\" data-end=\"10884\">\u201cI did not say let children go hungry in front of a full case.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10886\" data-end=\"10910\">Then Janet looked at me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10912\" data-end=\"10934\">Not through me. At me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10936\" data-end=\"10958\">\u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"10960\" data-end=\"11167\">I wanted to be angry. Part of me was. But Flora was sitting now at a small table, wrapped in Keanu\u2019s jacket, eating soup slowly while Emily placed fruit beside her like an apology she could not say out loud.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11169\" data-end=\"11230\">Keanu crouched near Flora and opened the strawberry cake box.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11232\" data-end=\"11274\">Her eyes widened. \u201cIs that really for me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11276\" data-end=\"11344\">\u201cYes,\u201d he said. \u201cBut only if your mom says cake after soup is okay.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11346\" data-end=\"11407\">Flora looked at me with the most serious expression on earth.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11409\" data-end=\"11418\">I nodded.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11420\" data-end=\"11479\">She took a tiny bite and smiled for the first time all day.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11481\" data-end=\"11559\">Then she broke off half a cookie from the side plate and held it out to Keanu.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11561\" data-end=\"11581\">\u201cFor you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11583\" data-end=\"11630\">His face softened in a way I will never forget.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11632\" data-end=\"11760\">\u201cThat\u2019s very kind,\u201d he said. \u201cBut you keep it. And one day, when you have more than you need, share kindness with someone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11762\" data-end=\"11807\">Flora nodded like he had given her a mission.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"11809\" data-end=\"12020\">Janet fired Dalton before he left the building. Emily was not punished. Instead, Janet asked her to help design a real donation program, one that did not make people wait outside in shame or beg at closing time.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12022\" data-end=\"12090\">The next week, Willow &amp; Rye placed a wooden shelf near the entrance.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12092\" data-end=\"12126\">A hand-painted sign above it read:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12128\" data-end=\"12181\"><strong data-start=\"12128\" data-end=\"12181\">Take what you need. Leave kindness where you can.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12183\" data-end=\"12305\">There were wrapped sandwiches, bread, fruit cups, and pastries every afternoon. No questions. No lectures. No humiliation.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12307\" data-end=\"12602\">A month later, I found work at a community kitchen downtown. Not glamorous work. Hard work. Honest work. I washed vegetables, packed meals, and learned the names of people who came through the line because Keanu had been right: nobody should have to become invisible just because they need help.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12604\" data-end=\"12678\">Emily visited sometimes. So did Janet. The bakery sent trays twice a week.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12680\" data-end=\"12690\">And Flora?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12692\" data-end=\"12733\">She kept that cookie story like treasure.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12735\" data-end=\"12841\">Whenever she saw someone alone at the community kitchen, she would ask, \u201cCan we give them the good bread?\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12843\" data-end=\"12861\">I always said yes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"12863\" data-end=\"13091\">I never saw Keanu again after that day. Not in person. But sometimes, when the bakery bell rings and someone walks in nervous, hungry, and ashamed, I think about the quiet man in the corner who could have looked away and didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13093\" data-end=\"13131\">He did not just buy my daughter lunch.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13133\" data-end=\"13159\">He gave us back our names.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"13161\" data-end=\"13400\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">He reminded a room full of people that kindness is not charity when it comes with respect. It is a rescue rope. And sometimes, one hand reaching out at the right moment can pull an entire community back toward who they were supposed to be.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"z-0 flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Part 1 The worst part was not asking for food. The worst part was watching my daughter pretend she was not hungry. Flora stood beside me in Willow &amp; Rye Bakery, hands folded over her stomach, staring at a strawberry cream cake behind the glass like it was something from a dream. 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