{"id":87808,"date":"2026-07-03T00:14:13","date_gmt":"2026-07-03T00:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808"},"modified":"2026-07-03T00:14:13","modified_gmt":"2026-07-03T00:14:13","slug":"at-my-husbands-funeral-my-parents-mocked-my-grief-in-front-of-everyone-believing-i-would-stay-silent-like-always-they-never-expected-one-stunning-revelation-to-change-the-entire-familys-view","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808","title":{"rendered":"At My Husband&#8217;s Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family&#8217;s View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever."},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 data-path-to-node=\"15\">Part 2<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"16\">Just a second before the devastating slap could strike my face, the funeral director rushed over to intervene. Dennis\u2019s hand froze mid-air, but his eyes, brimming with hostility, remained locked onto mine. The entire room fell into an eerie, suffocating silence, leaving only the judgmental whispers of our distant relatives echoing in the background. I stopped crying. My tears had completely run dry for my late husband, and I firmly decided that I would not waste another single drop on these heartless, blood-tied strangers. I turned my back and slowly walked out of the funeral home and into the pouring Seattle rain, completely ignoring my mother\u2019s bitter, furious calls echoing behind me. That was the exact moment my awakening became clearer than ever. The so-called &#8220;trivial event&#8221; they had heartlessly mentioned had effectively killed my very last shred of hope for a loving family.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"17\">The weeks that followed were a series of dark, agonizing days, but during that time, I meticulously plotted my escape. Gavin\u2019s gentle advice kept echoing in my mind: <i data-path-to-node=\"17\" data-index-in-node=\"166\">&#8220;You don&#8217;t owe them this pain, Noel.&#8221;<\/i> I quickly sold the suburban home overflowing with our beautiful memories, severed ties with all my old acquaintances, and completely changed my phone number. Through a dedicated and ruthless guardianship attorney, I locked down all access to my personal and financial information. In just three short weeks, I completely vanished from the East Coast, relocating to a tiny, hidden apartment in a Midwestern city hundreds of miles away from my parents. I did not leave a forwarding address. I did not write a letter. I did not utter a single word of goodbye. I simply evaporated from their lives, just as they had treated me like invisible air for the past thirty years.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"18\">My new life started from absolute zero, but armed with Gavin\u2019s life insurance policy and a modest amount of savings, I successfully established a small financial consulting firm. Day after day, I buried myself in spreadsheets and numbers, desperately trying to use the chaotic busyness to fill the massive, aching void Gavin had left behind. I also volunteered to provide free legal and financial support for widowed women, helping them stand on their own two feet after tragedy struck. But the dark ghost of my past was not going to let me go so easily.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"19\">About eight months after I fled, late one chilly afternoon, my assistant knocked on my office door to announce a very special guest. When I stepped into the reception area, the blood in my veins seemingly turned to ice. Standing there was Uncle Robert, a longtime, loyal friend of my father. He stood awkwardly, looking intensely uncomfortable, holding a thick, heavy manila folder in his hands. Uncle Robert hesitantly explained that my father, who had recently retired, was now entangled in a severe financial nightmare involving drained pension funds and massive bank loans. It turned out that my brother Darren\u2019s real estate company had just gone completely bankrupt, ruthlessly sweeping away my parents&#8217; entire life savings in the process. Dennis and Lorna had been desperately searching for me everywhere. They weren&#8217;t looking for me to apologize for their cruel words at the funeral; they sought me out because they knew I was a certified financial expert. They desperately needed me to step in and clean up the catastrophic mess their precious golden boy had left behind.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"20\">I stood rooted to the spot, my hands clenched into fists so tight that my fingernails dug deep into my palms. A chilling shudder ran straight down my spine. They weren&#8217;t looking for their daughter; they were looking for a convenient tool. Uncle Robert cautiously extended the thick folder toward me and sighed deeply. &#8220;Your father said if you have any conscience left, you need to resolve this debt. He said you owe the family the money Gavin left behind.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"21\">Hearing Gavin\u2019s sacred name come from their greedy mouths caused the very last string of my tolerance to violently snap. I stepped forward and snatched the heavy folder right out of Uncle Robert\u2019s trembling hands. With one swift, decisive motion, I hurled the entire stack of documents straight into the trash can in the corner of the room. The sound of the paper hitting the bottom was light, but it marked my total and absolute liberation. I looked straight into Uncle Robert\u2019s eyes, my voice echoing with a freezing, unyielding coldness in the quiet room: &#8220;Go back and tell Dennis Hail that his daughter died on the exact same day as her husband\u2019s funeral. Any future communication must go strictly through my lawyer, and if they continue to harass me, I will immediately file for a restraining order.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"22\">If you&#8217;ve read this far, don&#8217;t hesitate to leave a like and comment before reading part 3. It makes us as happy as reading a complete story! Thank you. \ud83d\udc4d\u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n<h3 data-path-to-node=\"24\">Part 3<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"25\">Five years passed in the blink of an eye since the fateful afternoon I threw that heavy folder into the trash can. My life in the new Midwestern city had truly blossomed. My financial consulting firm thrived beyond my wildest expectations, bringing in a very comfortable and steady income. I had managed to buy a charming little wooden house with a beautiful garden full of blooming roses\u2014the exact type of flowers Gavin used to love planting on Sunday mornings. I found profound peace and purpose in mentoring women who shared my tragic circumstances, helping them wipe away their tears to aggressively rebuild their financial lives. I had finally learned how to live with the heavy grief of missing Gavin, transforming that lingering sorrow into a powerful driving force rather than a crippling burden. Every single morning I woke up, I no longer felt the suffocating suppression and humiliation from my toxic family. I was genuinely free, wealthy, and at peace.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"26\">However, life always knows how to create the most unexpected turns. The brutal truth about the Hail family\u2019s downfall slowly reached me through the grapevine of old acquaintances from my hometown. My firm refusal to bail them out had pushed Dennis and Lorna into absolute destitution. They were ultimately forced to sell their spacious, luxurious suburban home just to pay off a fraction of the massive debt left by my brother Darren. Darren, true to his selfish nature, had quickly fled the state to avoid legal prosecution, leaving his two elderly parents to struggle in a dilapidated, rundown apartment complex on the bad side of town. The extended relatives and family friends, who had actively witnessed their cold-blooded behavior at Gavin\u2019s funeral years ago, had also completely turned their backs on them. My parents were now living in total, miserable isolation. When they shockingly discovered through the grapevine that the daughter they had always deemed &#8220;trivial&#8221; was now a highly successful, fiercely independent, and wealthy woman who didn&#8217;t need them at all, a crushing wave of regret finally began to gnaw at their souls. Before I moved, I had written a final handwritten letter to them. The words were crystal clear: no resentment, no rage, just a calm assertion that my love for them had completely died, and a strict demand that they never seek me out again. But apparently, it took years of living in the bitter cold of societal alienation for them to finally understand the crushing weight of that letter.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"27\">That autumn, I temporarily returned to the East Coast to attend the memorial service of Aunt Mary, a dear old family friend of Gavin. The solemn service took place at a small, quiet church in the suburbs. As I stepped out of the heavy oak doors of the church, taking a moment to enjoy the biting, crisp October wind against my face, a raspy, broken voice called out my name from the sidewalk.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"28\">&#8220;Noel&#8230; Noel, is that really you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"29\">I froze for a split second, then slowly turned my head. Standing at the bottom of the stone steps were Dennis and Lorna. I almost didn&#8217;t recognize them. Gone was the arrogant, overbearing posture of the past. Standing before me were two frail, bitterly weathered elderly people. Their clothes were old and frayed, and their shoulders slumped under the heavy weight of exhaustion and defeat. Lorna had grown shockingly thin, her eyes sunken deep into her skull as she took slow, trembling steps toward me. My father walked beside her, the same large, veiny hands that had once threatened to strike my face were now desperately clinging to a cheap wooden cane just to stay upright.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"30\">Seeing me wrapped in a luxurious wool coat, my face radiating calm confidence, Lorna\u2019s tears instantly spilled over. She reached her shaking hands out as if wanting to embrace me, sobbing loudly: &#8220;Noel, I am so sorry. We were so incredibly wrong. We are truly, deeply sorry&#8230; I know how much you suffered. Please, can you just give us one chance to make amends?&#8221; Dennis stood right next to her, his voice quivering with desperation: &#8220;My daughter&#8230; please, I beg you to forgive these foolish, bitter old people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"31\">They wept uncontrollably, their belated tears falling onto the cold stone steps. The surrounding attendees began to notice the commotion, and soft murmurs rippled through the small crowd. If I were the Noel from many years ago, I might have softened. I might have rushed forward, hugged them tightly, and desperately sought the illusion of a happy family. But the woman I am today felt nothing but an astonishing, unshakeable stillness in my soul. I didn&#8217;t feel a single ounce of hatred, nor did I feel a drop of pity. The massive wound they inflicted had fully healed and scabbed over long ago, leaving behind a smooth, hardened surface that could never be damaged by them ever again.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"32\">I took a deliberate step back, smoothly dodging Lorna\u2019s desperate touch. My eyes locked onto theirs, completely serene and incredibly articulate.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"33\">&#8220;Forgiveness and reconciliation are two entirely different things,&#8221; I said slowly, my voice loud and clear enough for them to hear every single syllable perfectly. &#8220;I forgave both of you a very long time ago, simply because holding onto hatred would only ruin my own life. But reconciliation? No. That is never going to happen. My life right now is wonderful, and there is absolutely zero room in it for either of you. I hope you live out the rest of your days in peace.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"34\">With those final words, I calmly buttoned my coat. I turned around and walked gracefully down the stone steps, heading straight toward my parked car. Lorna wailed hysterically behind me, screaming my name in sheer agony, but I did not turn my head to look back even once. I looked up at the clear blue sky and took a deep, refreshing breath of the freezing air. Gavin had been absolutely right. Sometimes, ruthlessly severing a toxic blood tie is the only possible way to save yourself. And this time, I had finally done it.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"35\">What do you think of this story? Please leave a like and share your thoughts in the comments. Your support means a lot to us and inspires us to keep writing more meaningful and powerful stories. Thank you! \ud83d\udc4d\u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Part 2 Just a second before the devastating slap could strike my face, the funeral director rushed over to intervene. Dennis\u2019s hand froze mid-air, but his eyes, brimming with hostility, remained locked onto mine. The entire room fell into an eerie, suffocating silence, leaving only the judgmental whispers of our distant relatives echoing in the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":87811,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>At My Husband&#039;s Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family&#039;s View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"At My Husband&#039;s Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family&#039;s View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Part 2 Just a second before the devastating slap could strike my face, the funeral director rushed over to intervene. Dennis\u2019s hand froze mid-air, but his eyes, brimming with hostility, remained locked onto mine. The entire room fell into an eerie, suffocating silence, leaving only the judgmental whispers of our distant relatives echoing in the [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Purposeful Days\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-07-03T00:14:13+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1000\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"1000\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Phong Nguyen\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Phong Nguyen\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"1 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808\",\"name\":\"At My Husband's Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family's View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-07-03T00:14:13+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4bbf0aec017fee1fb5027b7c39e98951\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg\",\"width\":1000,\"height\":1000},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"At My Husband&#8217;s Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family&#8217;s View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever.\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/\",\"name\":\"Purposeful Days\",\"description\":\"\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4bbf0aec017fee1fb5027b7c39e98951\",\"name\":\"Phong Nguyen\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9e2b64a6c1ed5f8027bfe6755272684b8d3b9607a7de613d6bdb22d00442333c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9e2b64a6c1ed5f8027bfe6755272684b8d3b9607a7de613d6bdb22d00442333c?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Phong Nguyen\"},\"sameAs\":[\"http:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?author=3\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"At My Husband's Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family's View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"At My Husband's Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family's View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days","og_description":"Part 2 Just a second before the devastating slap could strike my face, the funeral director rushed over to intervene. Dennis\u2019s hand froze mid-air, but his eyes, brimming with hostility, remained locked onto mine. The entire room fell into an eerie, suffocating silence, leaving only the judgmental whispers of our distant relatives echoing in the [&hellip;]","og_url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808","og_site_name":"Purposeful Days","article_published_time":"2026-07-03T00:14:13+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1000,"height":1000,"url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Phong Nguyen","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Phong Nguyen","Est. reading time":"1 minute"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808","url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808","name":"At My Husband's Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family's View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever. - Purposeful Days","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg","datePublished":"2026-07-03T00:14:13+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4bbf0aec017fee1fb5027b7c39e98951"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/ChatGPT-Image-07_07_52-3-thg-7-2026.jpg","width":1000,"height":1000},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=87808#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"At My Husband&#8217;s Funeral, My Parents Mocked My Grief in Front of Everyone, Believing I Would Stay Silent Like Always. They Never Expected One Stunning Revelation to Change the Entire Family&#8217;s View\u2014and End My Relationship with Them Forever."}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/","name":"Purposeful Days","description":"","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/4bbf0aec017fee1fb5027b7c39e98951","name":"Phong Nguyen","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9e2b64a6c1ed5f8027bfe6755272684b8d3b9607a7de613d6bdb22d00442333c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9e2b64a6c1ed5f8027bfe6755272684b8d3b9607a7de613d6bdb22d00442333c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Phong Nguyen"},"sameAs":["http:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org"],"url":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/?author=3"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=87808"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87808\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":87813,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87808\/revisions\/87813"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/87811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=87808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=87808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purpose.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=87808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}